'Bursting with empathy understanding and humour. A crucial book for our community and allies.'
Suzi Ruffell What is a black cat lesbian? Is 'aromantic' a sexuality or a preference? How are
bisexual and pansexual different? What's it like to be queer and religious? Does Gen Z do
darkrooms? How do you navigate life as a OAQ (Old Age Queer)? What does trans euphoria feel
like? Why is nightlife so central to the community? What is camp today? As queer people
themselves authors Lotte Jeffs and Stu Oakley knew they didn't have all the answers because
their individual experience represents a single pixel of the rainbow. Do Ask Do Tell is an
unapologetically curious journey through the dazzling spectrum of queer life that will give
people - queer straight cis and everything in-between - the confidence to say 'I don't know'.
With humor warmth and radically open minds Stu and Lotte tackle the questions you may have
avoided asking for fear of getting it wrong. Covering everything from ageing to open
relationships darkrooms to Drag Kings camp to carabinas as well as the intricacies of gender
and sexuality. This insightful and provocative exploration challenges assumptions shatters
taboos and opens up the conversation. Whether you're seeking clarity for your cis straight
self or deeper insight as a member of the community this book is your guide to better
understanding and celebrating the richness of queer life.
