Over 1.3m engaged followers on social media love to hear Tova Leigh's frank funny outrageous
and often moving views on life. This updated paperback is filled with all that and more with
the addition of a new chapter on life in lockdown. I was bored angry tired and sad. I felt
all alone yet I had nothing to complain about. I had a good job a husband who wasn't shagging
his assistant three children who apart from being occasional a**holes were pretty good kids a
house a dog and everything else we are told as little girls we should aspire to. But inside I
was restless. I didn't want to be seen as just a mom . I wanted to be desired to make
someone's hair stand on end and go crazy for me. I panicked and wondered how many years I had
left of being f**ckable before everything starts going downhill? F*cked at 40 is a funny raw
and empowering mid-life crisis. Tova Leigh takes the reader along on her journey of
rediscovering her identity after motherhood encouraging women to break free from society s
expectations. When you find authenticity it's like opening a door to the truth it's hard to go
back. This is what prompted Tova to write this book for herself and for women like her to say:
HERE I AM. This paperback edition of Tova's bestselling memoir includes a brand-new hilarious
chapter on her life revealing how vibrators didn't just add a zing to life but also provided
an income that put food on the table.
