A practical guide to nurturing healthy loving non-monogamous relationships using attachment
theory. Attachment theory has entered the mainstream but most discussions focus on how we
can cultivate secure monogamous relationships. What if like many people you're striving for
secure happy attachments with more than one partner? Polyamorous psychotherapist Jessica
Fern breaks new ground by extending attachment theory into the realm of consensual
non-monogamy. Using her nested model of attachment and trauma she expands our understanding of
how emotional experiences can influence our relationships. Then she sets out six specific
strategies to help you move toward secure attachments in your multiple relationships.
Polysecure is both a trailblazing theoretical treatise and a practical guide. It provides
non-monogamous people with a new set of tools to navigate the complexities of multiple loving
relationships and offers radical new concepts that are sure to influence the conversation
about attachment theory.